When talking about dating and relationship techniques, I will sometimes refer to those who are “beginners,” those who are at an “intermediate” level of skill, and those who are “advanced.” I’ve received some questions about this, and about how I’ve never clarified what these terms actually mean.
It’s only fair that if I use these terms, I should be more specific about their definitions.
If you’ve chosen online dating as your system, get this book. I was beginner for many months, messaging women, going out on dates, dealing with cancels and flakes, dealing with women ghosting me, getting turned down, and wasting a lot of time and money.
Most beginners tend to come in two flavors; young guys who haven’t had a lot of woman experience yet, and older guys who are just out of a long-term relationship or divorce, and who are very out of practice.His results are spotty and time consuming, and he does a lot of things wrong. This is because he can look back over the last several weeks or months and see some results.The women he has sex with range from low-average to the occasional hottie. They are also susceptible to oneitis when they have sex with a really hot woman, as I discussed in item #9 here.I’m sure other dating experts / PUA gurus will have definitions for these three terms that may look different from mine, and that’s fine.I’m just here to tell you what these three terms mean to me when I happen to use them in my writings.