Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus, who..himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant.” Be very careful about physical touch I would also encourage you to read through an article I’ve written that contains Guidelines for Sexual Purity.Satan, on the other hand, wants to mess you up with pride, sexual impurity and every other thing he can do to discredit your testimony for Christ and derail you from serving Him, and from one day having a godly marriage.Plan ahead Gaps always get filled, often with temptations to sexual impurity.One of the things I say in that article is that it’s essential to realize that your date is your sister in Christ—NOT your “lover.” “Treat older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity” (1 Timothy 5:2).Don’t go into dating with the goal of romance, but the goal of spending time with your sister.
You must stay safely back from the line where either one is propelled toward sexual intimacy.
One of the things I say in several of my books is that what is right is always smart, and what is wrong is always stupid.
That which is for God’s glory is also always for our good.
The intentional man repeatedly and constantly goes first and takes on all of the risk of rejection.
He always lets the girl know where he stands so she feels secure and isn’t left guessing.